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- 1 March 2025
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How to be the best wedding guest
Show respect, consideration and courtesy to the couple
Attending a wedding as a guest is a true celebration of love and friendship. But did you know that you also have a key role to play in making the day memorable. Being a great wedding guest is about more than just dressing appropriately and arriving on time. It's about showing respect, consideration and courtesy to the couple . Here are some tips on how to be a good wedding guest.
RSVP on time and arrive on time
Reply promptly to the wedding invitation before the date indicated, indicating whether or not you will be attending. This helps the bride and groom to plan more effectively, particularly with regard to seating arrangements, the meal and the overall organisation of the wedding. Ignoring or putting off a reply can complicate their work.
Follow ceremony etiquette
Be respectful during the ceremony. Turn off your phone, avoid talking and don't take photos unless explicitly authorised. Often, couples hire a professional photographer. There is no need to take photos during the ceremony, as the professional will take care of that, and taking your own photos may distract the friends and family around you.
Respect the dress code
The dress code for a wedding is an important aspect not to be overlooked. Whether it's a formal, casual, outdoor or themed wedding, make sure you conform to the dress code. Check the invitation to see if there is a particular dress code and avoid colours such as white (reserved for the bride) or black unless specifically mentioned.
Respecting cultural or religious traditions and the couple's wishes
If the wedding includes specific cultural or religious customs, be respectful and observe these traditions. If the couple has specific requests or guidelines, such as an unplugged ceremony or a specific hashtag for photos, make sure you comply.
Bring the right gift for the bride and groom
Bring a thoughtful gift for the couple, whether it's an item from their gift list or a personalised gesture. Another common option is to offer an envelope with a financial contribution.
Pay attention to the seating arrangements
Sit where you are assigned or choose a seat that makes sense in the context of your relationship with the couple and their families.
Join in the fun, be social and watch your alcohol consumption
The bride and groom have often spent months organising a memorable event. Join in the celebration by dancing, mingling and enjoying the festivities. Don't isolate yourself, don't spend too much time on your phone, engage in conversations with other guests and celebrate the love of the bride and groom If alcohol is served, drink responsibly. Excessive alcohol consumption can lead to inappropriate behaviour and can be offensive to hosts or family members.
Be courteous with service providers
On the day of the wedding, many service providers are involved in making sure everything runs smoothly Photographer, DJ, waiters, etc... Be respectful and courteous towards them, as they play a key role in the success of the event. A guest who is respectful towards the service providers helps to maintain a pleasant atmosphere throughout the day.
Send your congratulations after the wedding
A little extra attention after the wedding can go a long way. Send a message of congratulations or a small card to the bride and groom to show them how much you enjoyed their day and their organisation. This simple but sincere gesture will leave a positive impression.
Don't forget that the couple have spent a lot of time, energy and money organising this beautiful event for their friends and family. Being a good wedding guest means celebrating the couple's special day with joy, respect and consideration for others. Have the best time!
Photo credits @camille_poublang
About the author of the article
Michèle Silvestre is the founder of Ciel mon Amour! Vur wedding planner in Paris and the Ile-de-France region.
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